A memorial in the parking lot of the Hardin County Justice Center, where Erica Riley and her mother Janet Rylee were killed on their way to a domestic violence hearing. Erica Riley was seeking protection from the man who shot them and later killed himself. The photo was taken Sept. 22, 2024 in Elizabethtown. (Kentucky Lantern photo by Austin Anthony)
If you or someone you know has experienced domestic violence, call the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline at 1-800-656-4673. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. You can also contact any of Kentucky’s 15 domestic violence programs.?
This story also discusses suicide. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 988.?
Georgia Hensley feels like she’s been “screaming in a padded room” for too long about gaps in the way Kentucky protects survivors of domestic and intimate partner violence.?
Now that two women are dead in her town, “suddenly there’s two or three people at the tiny window on the door” listening to those concerns, said Hensley, the CEO of SpringHaven, which helps survivors of intimate partner violence in Kentucky’s Lincoln Trail District.?
“It truly has been like begging for help and no one was listening … and that’s abhorrent,” Hensley said. “It should not take the death of a woman and her mother and the severe injury of her father for all of us to begin talking about the issues that we needed to be discussing anyway.”?
A month after a woman and her mother were gunned down in the parking lot of the courthouse in Elizabethtown on the day of her emergency protective order (EPO) hearing, advocates who work to end intimate partner violence told the Lantern the state can and should do more to protect survivors.?
That includes, they say, passing a Crisis Aversion and Rights Retention Orders (CARR) bill, which would establish a process for temporarily removing guns from people at risk of hurting themselves or others. In other words, a “red flag” law.?
In 1994, Congress barred anyone who is subject to a domestic violence protective order — or who has been convicted of the crime of domestic violence — from possessing or buying a gun or ammunition. The United States Supreme Court upheld that law this year, saying it is constitutional to disarm a person in those circumstances.?
Kentucky is not among the 32 states that have enacted their own laws and protocols to separate domestic abusers from guns, even temporarily. As a result, protection for victims varies across the state, said Darlene Thomas, the executive director of GreenHouse17, a Fayette County-based nonprofit working to end intimate partner violence.?
The violent deaths in Elizabethtown, Hensley says, should spur action.?
“The community is enraged,” she said. “Citizens are enraged. And our officials need to be listening.”??
In early August, Erica Riley asked the court system to protect her from a man with whom, police say, she’d had a relationship.?
A judge granted her request, issuing an emergency protective order (EPO) on Aug. 8 and scheduling a hearing to consider extending the order.?
On the morning of the hearing, Aug. 19, Riley arrived at the Elizabethtown courthouse, family by her side.?
The man in question, Christopher Elder, 46, was there too.?
Jeremy Thompson, the Elizabethtown police chief, said that Elder shot Riley and two others in an “ambush type style” in the parking lot right before 9 a.m., when the hearing was scheduled.?
Riley died there, police say, the day before she was to turn 38.?
Her mother, Janet, later died at the hospital, police say. Erica Riley’s father was also injured and hospitalized, but has since been released, according to a police spokesman.??
Within hours of the shooting, police publicly named Elder as their suspect. He led police on a multi-county, 100-mile car chase. After a standoff in a parking lot in Christian County with at least nine first responder agencies, he shot himself at 11:15 CST, according to Kentucky State Police.?
Elder was airlifted to Vanderbilt Hospital and died that day.?
While the Elizabethtown shooting got widespread attention, the key details aren’t uncommon.?
The majority of murder-suicides (62%) in the United States have an intimate partner component, the nonprofit Violence Policy Center said in a 2023 report.?
Almost all of those — 95% — were a man killing a woman and 93% of those involved a gun.?
Most female homicide victims were killed by a current or former male partner, according to research published in the National Library of Medicine last year.?
That same research showed victims of intimate partner violence are five times more likely to die if their abuser has access to a gun — and 1 in 8 convicted perpetrators of intimate partner violence admit they used a gun to threaten someone.??
In 2022, about half of Kentucky women — 45.3% — and around 35.5% of men had experienced intimate partner violence — or threat of it — in their lifetimes, the Lantern has reported. ?In 2023, that number decreased to 44.5% of women and 32.9% of men.?
When police respond to a domestic violence or adjacent situation, they are required to file a form called a JC-3. Of the roughly 41,000 Kentucky JC-3s filed in 2023, 97 involved a gun.?
Hundreds more — 399 — involved terroristic threatening.
Research shows when abusive partners have access to guns, they’re more likely to kill. A 2023 paper published in the National Library of Medicine found victims were five times more likely to die when a firearm is involved.?
Advocates who work to end intimate partner violence told the Lantern that Kentucky needs a way to remove weapons from the hands of domestic violence? perpetrators.?
Even though the Supreme Court says it’s constitutional to disarm people who are the subject of domestic violence protective orders, that’s basically an “unfunded mandate” in Kentucky, said Thomas with GreenHouse17.?
“Our systems throughout the commonwealth are having to figure out who gets them, who collects them, who stores them, who marks them for storage,” she explained. “How do people get them back? When do they get them back? What’s the process for people to get their weapons back when they’ve been removed?”?
There’s no funding in Kentucky to carry out the federal law, Thomas said, which results in an uneven application across the state.
“Some courts will sometimes ask the sheriffs to go confiscate the weapons. Sometimes they’ll tell a person, ‘you have to turn those weapons over to your attorney or to the sheriff’s department,’” she said. “All the systems are a little different by how they do it, but the federal law says they have authority to help see that weapons are not in the hands of abusers, right? How they go about doing that can look very different county to county, judge to judge, situation to situation.”?
Based on existing laws, any firearm Elder had “should have been removed from his possession at the time he was served,” said Hensley, who is also an attorney.
It’s unclear if the gun used in the August shooting was registered to the suspect. No official information about the gun and how it was obtained is available, a police spokesman told the Lantern.?
“The way that most sheriff’s departments serve those petitions and request for firearms is simply … they’ll knock on the door, (say), ‘Here you go, sir. Do you have any firearms in the house?’ And if the perpetrator says, ‘No,’ that’s it,” Hensley explained.?
Whether or not a police officer has the legal ability to enter the home and search for those weapons is a complicated question, Hensley said. “I would probably argue, as an attorney: no,” she said.?
One exception could be if the petitioner told authorities that the alleged perpetrator did have access to weapons.?
Still, she said: “truthfully, that’s an uphill legal battle. They would really need to obtain a warrant or see something.”?
Leaving an abusive situation — when it’s often most dangerous for survivors — is difficult, but doesn’t have to happen alone.?
In Elizabethtown, Hensley organized a court escort volunteer service after Riley’s death.?
“I don’t have any faith in the legislature or in our leadership to get that done, so I’ve done it,” she said. “And is that something that a nonprofit should be forced to do? Probably not. But is it something that we’re going to do? Yeah, it is. It is because safety is the most important thing.”?
Still, survivors sometimes must enter a courthouse or go through a door at the same time as an abuser or sit together in a waiting area, advocates say.?
But there are simple — and inexpensive — solutions to those physical barriers, said Angela Yannelli, the CEO of ZeroV (formerly known as the Kentucky Coalition Against Domestic Violence), such as bringing in the parties at different times and through different entrances and having a designated space for petitioners to wait separate from respondents.?
It’s also currently up to a judge’s discretion if they hold domestic hearings over Zoom, Hensley said.?
But it’s a policy she says the General Assembly should codify.?
Doing so could lessen some of the physical stress of a hearing, she said. But, there are downsides.?
“These cases can often be difficult to determine, and so much of it is based on body language and … a determination of who you believe,” she said. “And some of that is very difficult to do via Zoom.”?
While there are safety gaps, the state has a lot working in its favor: a robust network of violence prevention programs and researched-backed primary prevention, which involves educating children and other community members about intimate partner violence, said Christy Burch, the CEO of the ION Center for violence prevention in Northern Kentucky.??
“There’s barriers to staying. There’s barriers to leaving,” Burch said. “When I think about that preparation to leaving or making a big change there, reach out to your local program. We are here. You don’t have to walk that journey alone.”
Sen. Whitney Westerfield, the Republican chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, sponsored CARR in 2024 but he’s leaving the Republican-controlled legislature after deciding not to run for reelection this year.?
His co-sponsors for CARR were all Democrats. One of them, Louisville Sen. David Yates, is “working to build support from colleagues in the Senate to carry the bill with him” in 2025, a Senate Democrats spokesman said.?
The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention reports that people dealing with suicidality are more likely to live if they lose access to guns and other “lethal means” temporarily, until intense feelings pass. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 988.?
Aurora Vasquez, the vice president of State Policy & Engagement with Sandy Hook Promise, a national nonprofit that works to end gun violence, said temporary removal is key to “defuse the situation.”
“It’s often painted as though CARR is producing a permanent loss of Second Amendment rights,” she said.?
But the goal with CARR, she said, is to “give people help in the moment they need it most, so that they don’t lose their Second Amendment rights.”?
“We can’t collectively as a society — and Kentucky certainly should not, given that it has a robust gun culture — should not look away from the fact that gun owners sometimes need help, and it’s okay,” Vasquez said. “As human beings, we all sometimes need help, right? Being a firearm owner does not exclude us from that.”??
There’s no way to know if CARR could have saved Erica Riley’s life, Yannelli said.
“What we do know is that getting firearms out of the hands of an abuser will save lives,” she said.??
Thomas with GreenHouse17 agreed.?
“Weapons escalate situations and not deescalate them,” she said. “I think CARR protections … would help our law enforcement and our communities feel a little safer with temporary gun removal for somebody that’s experiencing an episode of some kind.”
Experts who spoke with the Lantern said while every relationship looks different, and patterns of abuse can vary, there are some warning signs. Being aware of them can prepare people to help curb abuse.?
Those include but aren’t limited to:?
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If you think someone else is experiencing intimate partner violence, advocates say you can:?
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Psychologist and Eastern State Chief Administrative Officer Lindsay Jasinski celebrates with emergency psychiatrist and Eastern State Chief Medical Officer Andrew Cooley at the July ribbon cutting for EmPATH. (UK Photo)
This story mentions suicide and mental health. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, please call or text the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988.?
Kentucky’s first psychiatric emergency unit cared for more than 150 people in its first 10 days of operation — more than half of whom were dealing with suicidality.
The EmPATH (which stands for Emergency Psychiatric Assessment, Treatment and Healing) unit is on Eastern State Hospital’s campus in Lexington, but is serving a wide-ranging population, with patients traveling from as far as Danville, Ashland and Somerset. It opened July 30, the first of its kind in Kentucky.?
There are 30 EmPATH units in the country, which have open floor plans, as opposed to individual rooms. People who seek care during mental health crises can walk around, hang out on a patio for fresh air and even talk to peer support specialists who have histories of mental health issues and can relate to patients.?
“??They can move … to an area that has sunshine and they can see outdoors, but it allows them to sort of choose their space, whatever works for them, to help decompress whatever that behavioral health crisis was,” Eastern State Chief Administrative Officer and psychologist Lindsey Jasinski said.?
Kentucky’s EmPATH unit, funded by the University of Kentucky,? is about 11,000 square feet, has a 12-person capacity and only sees patients 18 and older.?
Anyone who is experiencing a mental health crisis that is impacting their day-to-day functioning can seek help at the unit at 1354 Bull Lea Road in Lexington.?
As soon as a patient comes into EmPATH, they’re seen “nearly immediately,” Jasinski said. The facility takes insurance, but will treat people whether or not they have it. If that is the case, Jasinski said, the unit works with that patient to develop a sliding scale payment plan based on their ability to pay, which means they won’t face a flat rate.?
The unit has three peer support specialists — employees who have histories of mental health issues and are specially certified to speak peer-to-peer with patients — who are available seven days a week from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m.?
These specialists greet patients as soon as they walk in the door. They may ask a new patient if they need food or water, sunshine or air. They are also trained in de-escalation.?
“The key part of what they provide in this environment, and this is sort of central to all of what EmPATH does, is they provide hope that things can be different,” Jasinski explained. “And I think that is a very, very powerful message for someone to leave with, not only the medications they need, not only the therapy they need, but a sense of hope that things can be different.”??
As soon as they arrive, patients receive a pillow, blanket and a recliner, which they can move around the unit as they see fit.?
Patients can stay up to 23 hours in the unit, after which they either go home or are transferred to inpatient care or substance use recovery treatment.?
If there is immediate risk the patient will hurt themselves or someone else, staff can involuntarily hold them. But that is rare, said Marc Woods, who’s worked at Eastern State Hospital for more than 30 years and is its chief nursing officer.
“Safety first,” emphasized Dr. Andrew Cooley, a UK HealthCare psychiatrist and chief medical officer for Eastern State Hospital. “We are going to protect someone who can’t protect themselves. And if that requires further inpatient admission, then that’s what we would have to do. That’s when it would convert from a voluntary process to involuntary.”?
But most — Woods estimated about 90% — of the unit’s patients go home after visiting the unit.?
In its first week and a half of operation, patients were a mix of walk-ins and outside referrals.?
Stigma around mental health in general and around mental health hospitalization is improving, Woods said, but it’s still present.?
“We’ve had a couple of families and patients even come in … saying that they’ve really avoided seeking help because they don’t want to go to the (emergency department), or, they’re embarrassed by having to go to the ED,” Woods said. “And they’ve come to us, they’ve expressed they were happy to have a place to come where they felt like they didn’t have to be embarrassed by some of the things they had going on in their lives.”?
Stigma is perpetuated, Jasinski said, when people and media link mental illness with violence.?
But: “Our folks with mental illness that we see are much more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators of violence,” she said.?
She and the other EmPATH staff are keen to break through stigma around mental illnesses. They will measure success in this effort, they said, by making sure people are coming and getting help from the unit and when they see the number of deaths by suicide decrease. In 2022, at least 823 Kentuckians died by suicide, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The suicide prevention lifeline is 988.?
“If we can treat behavioral health emergencies just like any other need, we can reduce stigma around that, and this allows folks to get very timely, effective intervention and stabilization for behavioral health crisis in a specialized setting for them,” Jasinski said.?
Part of de-stigmatizing mental health is to decriminalize it, she said, which is a goal the staff is working toward.??
“Historically, within the mental health system, there’s been a lot of involvement of law enforcement,” Jasinski said. “There’s some criminalization that has happened with mental illness. What would be great is if law enforcement never had to touch these folks.”?
A key part of Kentucky’s EmPATH unit is to treat mental illnesses in the state and lower stigma around that care. But it also “makes an impact on the entire ecosystem,” Cooley said.?
“With this design, patients that have mental illnesses are not congesting routine emergency rooms, where … they would wait commonly for hours and hours,” he said.?
And traditional emergency rooms aren’t trauma-informed and calming places, Jasinski said.?
“If you are anxious or overwhelmed, it is not a place that’s going to make you feel less anxious,” she said. “Typically, it’s very loud. There’s a lot going on.”?
Medical providers are also going to prioritize patients with gunshot wounds or heart attacks, Woods said. At EmPATH, though, staff have a singular focus on treating the mind.?
“This is a low bar type of entry,” Cooley said. Staff will medically screen anyone who walks through the door. “In the past, emergency services — or urgency services — had high bars, and the threshold was way too high: ‘You’re too sick’ or ‘you’re not sick enough.’”?
He added: “We’re not saying no to anybody who walks in the door.”?
Even if the unit is at capacity, Jasinski said,?we would still see patients, medically screen them, and then decide the best place for them to be.”
They could also be transferred to a nearby hospital unit, if need be, she said. “Our goal is to treat every patient we can possibly serve.”
Not yet two weeks in, “What we’ve learned is that we’re going to be busy, and we have been busy already,” Jasinski said.?
But she and others are already looking to support organizations around the state that want to open similar units.?
“We don’t want this to be the only EmPATH,” she said. “There needs to be many, many more of these.”??
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